Just to close up, up till now she still says she is in no fault watsoever and whatever happened was due to my bro's mistakes and problems. Wait till you hear why they quarrel from me then you tell me if she in fault or not. But i'm not siding entirely with my bro here too of cos. I believe when couples get divorced its always both parties faults. not just one party. Agree? :)
Thursday, March 27, 2008
Part III ....... ^^
OK so up till now, situation still very unclear lor. My dad has stopped having "talk sessions" with her parents cos no point lah just wasting time. But even till now, she still calls my dad once in a while only to ask for money wuahaha. oh well, anyway it seems divorce is imminent and I just hope all will turns out ok for the kids. I really worry about them actually.
Just to close up, up till now she still says she is in no fault watsoever and whatever happened was due to my bro's mistakes and problems. Wait till you hear why they quarrel from me then you tell me if she in fault or not. But i'm not siding entirely with my bro here too of cos. I believe when couples get divorced its always both parties faults. not just one party. Agree? :)
Just to close up, up till now she still says she is in no fault watsoever and whatever happened was due to my bro's mistakes and problems. Wait till you hear why they quarrel from me then you tell me if she in fault or not. But i'm not siding entirely with my bro here too of cos. I believe when couples get divorced its always both parties faults. not just one party. Agree? :)
Part II "Purple Lady"
Forgot to mention this on Part I : My dad actually bought them a house already, and she actually almost got hold on a big bank deposit. wuahaha her luck for showing her craziness too early and got cancelled off by my dad.
After the last incident, she like went missing with the children for like 3 weeks plus. because previously she has a case of running home so often, my parents just ignore them. anyway they adults already mah, why should my parents "cap" so much rite? anyhow, 3 weeks later, CNY also coming, suddenly my mum's friend called: eh your house's address in newspaper leh, u got case with the police is it? We were like : HUH? what newspaper? what case?
Later on that day we got hold of the newspaper and the biatch actually filed a police report of being assaulted by hubby. The report roughly says like this:
Wife of PALM OIL PLANTATION reports of being abused my husband repeatedly. She came with her father to file a case of abused and her father said: I saw my daughter's limping and whole body blue black,eyes black and sore, hands blue black everywhere,then she told me her husband hits her. I got angry and so I bring her here to file a case against her husband. The victim of address bla bla bla who is the wife of several Palm oil plantation owner says: yeah i have been beaten several times, this time i can't take it anymore hence I come with my father to file a case.
HOLY COW. let me clarify first ya. The day she left, I can honestly tell infront of all the GODS AND MIGHTY BEINGS that exist, she is DEFINITELY not limping, nor is there any blue black on her body,her hands and eyes. And considering she wears f***kingly little at home everyday we can see everything except her pubic hair and nipples. And lucky for us, there are several maids and drivers at home when she left the house that day, and they become our witness later in this case. And hor, her hubby not owner of plantation lor for goodness sake, it still belongs to my father and uncles leh. Not even handed down to them yet leh. I tell you why she thought she already got it later in person. hehe
Seriously lor, up till this point, my parents are shocked beyond words. And after several minutes then they managed to say: So her ultimate motives is to extort us. Because hor, in our country, for our ethnic, once you report a case to police ya, your main motives is only for money. And please hor, they even state in the newspaper that they have medical records to proof that she was indeed beaten tat bad u know. So I really wondering is it after she reached home, she asked her dad to beat her up. ^^;; Seriously a msytery to us even now.
Because its CNY soon, my dad still wanna talk peace with them. Because we realised later on, that the biatch has actually been talking to my dad. She knows my dad has a soft spot for her, so she keeps telling my dad that she actually wans peace wans to go back bla bla bla.
Seriously girls: if she really wanna comes back, would she lodge a police report? And lodge such demeaning report somemore?
So anyhow her father called up my dad says need to talk. its like last minute call one ok. Say today 5 pm he called my dad says: 7pm we talk at where. and this talking session actually took place several times and each time everything everyone agreed ok no problem, the next day they change everything and says cancelled. And we actually brings a middle man who is their parents best friends just to be fair for them u know. Until the last time which was a few weeks ago, my dad got frustrated lor, the middle man also frustrated with their changing minds everytime. This time, the biatch says she will only come back if my bro signed the below agreement:
1. A house under my name, and I choose to buy which house where and how much
2. a car under my name for my personal use
3 Promise not to hit me AGAIN or we will divorce
4. A bank deposits with enough money until my children are all grown up and independent.
Seriously, would any sane guy signed this? First of all if my bro signed it, it will means he admits to hitting her taht bad, somemore hor no need to put that point, if my bro really hit her she can divorve anytime wat rite or not? This is so a trap. As for point 1 and 2 not a problem anyway she is having them soon if she hasnt left. as for 4, seriously lah, u girls tell me, how much money u need to bring up 2 children at current economic standard? she better off just says give her UNLIMITTED bank account.
My dad was furious lor of cos, this is so clear she is extorting us. So my dad gives up and tells my bro you handle urself i dun care what you wan to do, its your life your wife your children you decide i'm tired already.
After the last incident, she like went missing with the children for like 3 weeks plus. because previously she has a case of running home so often, my parents just ignore them. anyway they adults already mah, why should my parents "cap" so much rite? anyhow, 3 weeks later, CNY also coming, suddenly my mum's friend called: eh your house's address in newspaper leh, u got case with the police is it? We were like : HUH? what newspaper? what case?
Later on that day we got hold of the newspaper and the biatch actually filed a police report of being assaulted by hubby. The report roughly says like this:
Wife of PALM OIL PLANTATION reports of being abused my husband repeatedly. She came with her father to file a case of abused and her father said: I saw my daughter's limping and whole body blue black,eyes black and sore, hands blue black everywhere,then she told me her husband hits her. I got angry and so I bring her here to file a case against her husband. The victim of address bla bla bla who is the wife of several Palm oil plantation owner says: yeah i have been beaten several times, this time i can't take it anymore hence I come with my father to file a case.
HOLY COW. let me clarify first ya. The day she left, I can honestly tell infront of all the GODS AND MIGHTY BEINGS that exist, she is DEFINITELY not limping, nor is there any blue black on her body,her hands and eyes. And considering she wears f***kingly little at home everyday we can see everything except her pubic hair and nipples. And lucky for us, there are several maids and drivers at home when she left the house that day, and they become our witness later in this case. And hor, her hubby not owner of plantation lor for goodness sake, it still belongs to my father and uncles leh. Not even handed down to them yet leh. I tell you why she thought she already got it later in person. hehe
Seriously lor, up till this point, my parents are shocked beyond words. And after several minutes then they managed to say: So her ultimate motives is to extort us. Because hor, in our country, for our ethnic, once you report a case to police ya, your main motives is only for money. And please hor, they even state in the newspaper that they have medical records to proof that she was indeed beaten tat bad u know. So I really wondering is it after she reached home, she asked her dad to beat her up. ^^;; Seriously a msytery to us even now.
Because its CNY soon, my dad still wanna talk peace with them. Because we realised later on, that the biatch has actually been talking to my dad. She knows my dad has a soft spot for her, so she keeps telling my dad that she actually wans peace wans to go back bla bla bla.
Seriously girls: if she really wanna comes back, would she lodge a police report? And lodge such demeaning report somemore?
So anyhow her father called up my dad says need to talk. its like last minute call one ok. Say today 5 pm he called my dad says: 7pm we talk at where. and this talking session actually took place several times and each time everything everyone agreed ok no problem, the next day they change everything and says cancelled. And we actually brings a middle man who is their parents best friends just to be fair for them u know. Until the last time which was a few weeks ago, my dad got frustrated lor, the middle man also frustrated with their changing minds everytime. This time, the biatch says she will only come back if my bro signed the below agreement:
1. A house under my name, and I choose to buy which house where and how much
2. a car under my name for my personal use
3 Promise not to hit me AGAIN or we will divorce
4. A bank deposits with enough money until my children are all grown up and independent.
Seriously, would any sane guy signed this? First of all if my bro signed it, it will means he admits to hitting her taht bad, somemore hor no need to put that point, if my bro really hit her she can divorve anytime wat rite or not? This is so a trap. As for point 1 and 2 not a problem anyway she is having them soon if she hasnt left. as for 4, seriously lah, u girls tell me, how much money u need to bring up 2 children at current economic standard? she better off just says give her UNLIMITTED bank account.
My dad was furious lor of cos, this is so clear she is extorting us. So my dad gives up and tells my bro you handle urself i dun care what you wan to do, its your life your wife your children you decide i'm tired already.
Chronicles of the "Purple Lady" Part I
errhhmm, sorry for the sudden interruption. This is Freaktwit reporting on the latest updates of "queen ellyzabeth". still remember her? I shouldn't be putting up her tabloids here lah but for conveniency sake hehe hope you girls won't mind.
Anyway just a short update on current situation:
- currently living separately, children all taken by her
- possible divorcing action in progress
Story started a few months back roughly on 15th January 2008 if my pregnant mind not mistaken. :p Quarreled with the hubby (as usual), just this time whole family got involved in separating them before any of them got killed. Reasons for quarreling will be detailed when we meet in person. ;)
2 days later she suddenly packed all her stuffs and some of kids stuffs and basically drag the elder daughter out from our house. When i say drag, I MEAN IT. cos the daughter dun wan to leave with her, but she forced by dragging her while she squirming on the floor. (this info came from my maids and drivers) at the time of happening, me not at home, BUT my mother was at home. Only that she just came back from Bali and was too busy unpacking and cleaning up for new year in her own room that she didn't realise her granddaughter's crying was because of that. After she left then the maids told us, we scolded the maids terribly of cos for not telling my mum WHEN it happened. Up till this point, remember that none of us are in any conflict with her, only she with her hubby. And of cos later on the day, my bro told us he's the one who asked her to leave. ^^;;
Anyway the next day, she asked her maids to come to our house to collect her kids clothes. No prior informing my mum or anyone at home. Her maids just knock the door, come in get the stuffs and leave. We not at home of cos.(RUDE MAN, thats my mum's house not her hubby's house, Uneducated biatch) oh forgot one more info, I was there since early january hehe stayed there until last week. :p And also since I was there, I can tell u I haven't seen her call my mum even once,not even a "hi" Even though she keeps passing her by, eat at the same table, but she like treat my mum invisible.
The 2nd day even better, she actually called my bro's office and borrow a pick up van and AGAIN asked the maids to come to my mum's house when none of us at home, clear up all the kids toys, (the amount is enough to open childcare home) she asked the maid to just take everything dun leave anything behind. Lucky this time one of our maids smart quickly call my mum, my mum told her not to let them take toys that belongs to my 2nd brother's son. At this point my mum gets angry liao, cos ignoring her and "clearing" her house while she not around hits her button. She straight away ordered the maids at home tat from now on, do not open the door for her or her maids unless got orders from my mom. I was asked to call the office and informed all employees that from today onwards, she is in conflict with us, do not show her company's secrets do not loan car unless we got say so. THEN HOR, 2 hours later, my employee called me: says she wanna borrow the pick up again, I asked for wat? she says: toys too many wanna return some. ^^;; I was like WTF u think my mum's house warehouse ah? U like u take dun like u dump back? I got angry at this point and told my employee, DO NOT lend her the pick up, tell her since she so greedy took all in the first place she can keep everything we dun need any of it back. (dunno if me wrong to do this,but I just find her disrespect towards my parents unbearable)
Then on the same nite, she sms my brother this:(rough translation lah ya)
Until today I'm still your wife, I have your children and I demand that you respect me as your wife. As your wife means I'm allowed to go back our home get my stuffs, why are you all forbiding me to take my own stuffs back? What rights have you all to do this to me? And also *th auntie even though no husband, but she got her own house, own car, own bank deposits. Why don't i have any?
Ok, let me defend my family a bit. hehe Its not that we forbade her to get her own stuffs back,had she nicely told my mum that she is asking her maids to come collect stuffs my mum would have let her do it. Cos must remember leh, up till this point we never quarelled with her at all leh, and we have been very nice to her leh, why can't she call us then? why don't she talk to us about her problems with my brother? Even if she assume we on our bro's side, but isn't it just right to at least inform your in-laws that you are having problem with ur hubby and that he has asked her to leave etc At least clear up any misunderstandings mah rite or not? Considering she keeps telling us she dun wan to leave, she wans to stay etc.
And as for the *th auntie, for your info, her hubby DIED young and she stayed unmarried looking after my uncle's 3 children, and they have been married for like 10 years plus,OF COS she gets her own house lah. Who is she to compare with my *th auntie man. And to mention the bank deposits, holy cow she sounds like one of those "China girl" to me man. Dun u girls think so?
Anyway just a short update on current situation:
- currently living separately, children all taken by her
- possible divorcing action in progress
Story started a few months back roughly on 15th January 2008 if my pregnant mind not mistaken. :p Quarreled with the hubby (as usual), just this time whole family got involved in separating them before any of them got killed. Reasons for quarreling will be detailed when we meet in person. ;)
2 days later she suddenly packed all her stuffs and some of kids stuffs and basically drag the elder daughter out from our house. When i say drag, I MEAN IT. cos the daughter dun wan to leave with her, but she forced by dragging her while she squirming on the floor. (this info came from my maids and drivers) at the time of happening, me not at home, BUT my mother was at home. Only that she just came back from Bali and was too busy unpacking and cleaning up for new year in her own room that she didn't realise her granddaughter's crying was because of that. After she left then the maids told us, we scolded the maids terribly of cos for not telling my mum WHEN it happened. Up till this point, remember that none of us are in any conflict with her, only she with her hubby. And of cos later on the day, my bro told us he's the one who asked her to leave. ^^;;
Anyway the next day, she asked her maids to come to our house to collect her kids clothes. No prior informing my mum or anyone at home. Her maids just knock the door, come in get the stuffs and leave. We not at home of cos.(RUDE MAN, thats my mum's house not her hubby's house, Uneducated biatch) oh forgot one more info, I was there since early january hehe stayed there until last week. :p And also since I was there, I can tell u I haven't seen her call my mum even once,not even a "hi" Even though she keeps passing her by, eat at the same table, but she like treat my mum invisible.
The 2nd day even better, she actually called my bro's office and borrow a pick up van and AGAIN asked the maids to come to my mum's house when none of us at home, clear up all the kids toys, (the amount is enough to open childcare home) she asked the maid to just take everything dun leave anything behind. Lucky this time one of our maids smart quickly call my mum, my mum told her not to let them take toys that belongs to my 2nd brother's son. At this point my mum gets angry liao, cos ignoring her and "clearing" her house while she not around hits her button. She straight away ordered the maids at home tat from now on, do not open the door for her or her maids unless got orders from my mom. I was asked to call the office and informed all employees that from today onwards, she is in conflict with us, do not show her company's secrets do not loan car unless we got say so. THEN HOR, 2 hours later, my employee called me: says she wanna borrow the pick up again, I asked for wat? she says: toys too many wanna return some. ^^;; I was like WTF u think my mum's house warehouse ah? U like u take dun like u dump back? I got angry at this point and told my employee, DO NOT lend her the pick up, tell her since she so greedy took all in the first place she can keep everything we dun need any of it back. (dunno if me wrong to do this,but I just find her disrespect towards my parents unbearable)
Then on the same nite, she sms my brother this:(rough translation lah ya)
Until today I'm still your wife, I have your children and I demand that you respect me as your wife. As your wife means I'm allowed to go back our home get my stuffs, why are you all forbiding me to take my own stuffs back? What rights have you all to do this to me? And also *th auntie even though no husband, but she got her own house, own car, own bank deposits. Why don't i have any?
Ok, let me defend my family a bit. hehe Its not that we forbade her to get her own stuffs back,had she nicely told my mum that she is asking her maids to come collect stuffs my mum would have let her do it. Cos must remember leh, up till this point we never quarelled with her at all leh, and we have been very nice to her leh, why can't she call us then? why don't she talk to us about her problems with my brother? Even if she assume we on our bro's side, but isn't it just right to at least inform your in-laws that you are having problem with ur hubby and that he has asked her to leave etc At least clear up any misunderstandings mah rite or not? Considering she keeps telling us she dun wan to leave, she wans to stay etc.
And as for the *th auntie, for your info, her hubby DIED young and she stayed unmarried looking after my uncle's 3 children, and they have been married for like 10 years plus,OF COS she gets her own house lah. Who is she to compare with my *th auntie man. And to mention the bank deposits, holy cow she sounds like one of those "China girl" to me man. Dun u girls think so?
Thursday, February 21, 2008
4th day of bobo's diet
21st Feb
2.30pm Lunch
Had a bowl of pork and cuttlefish porridge. ate one piece of the 6 youtiaos waving at me.
1 cup of Qin Chao
6pm. Actually feeling faint.
1 jumbu fruit.
1 packet of guava.
Dinner 7pm
1 cup a soup 106 calories with 100ml full cream milk (Full cream milk prob 10 thousand calories)1 foo chow fish ball
2 meat ball
1 big bowl of chopped spinach
4 strands of smoked cuttlefish snack
2.30pm Lunch
Had a bowl of pork and cuttlefish porridge. ate one piece of the 6 youtiaos waving at me.
1 cup of Qin Chao
6pm. Actually feeling faint.
1 jumbu fruit.
1 packet of guava.
Dinner 7pm
1 cup a soup 106 calories with 100ml full cream milk (Full cream milk prob 10 thousand calories)1 foo chow fish ball
2 meat ball
1 big bowl of chopped spinach
4 strands of smoked cuttlefish snack
20th Feb
1030 tea break
5!!! pieces of 3cm by 3 cm of sandwich!!! Ahbish myself.
Lunch
$9.80 buffet Teochew porridge.
1/2 bowl porridge
1/2 chicken wing
lots of hei bi hiam
lots of vege
1 small piece curry chicken
2 chicken feet
Dinner
Yong Tau Foo
2 cutlefish legs
1 egg
1/2 tomato
1/2 green pepper
1/2 silken tofu
1 bunch straw mushroom
1 small bunch kangkong
1030 tea break
5!!! pieces of 3cm by 3 cm of sandwich!!! Ahbish myself.
Lunch
$9.80 buffet Teochew porridge.
1/2 bowl porridge
1/2 chicken wing
lots of hei bi hiam
lots of vege
1 small piece curry chicken
2 chicken feet
Dinner
Yong Tau Foo
2 cutlefish legs
1 egg
1/2 tomato
1/2 green pepper
1/2 silken tofu
1 bunch straw mushroom
1 small bunch kangkong
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Project WESOBEAUTIFUL: Too many days...
Yeah! Ah bo is updating!!!
Must encourage her *Pat on the back*
At 12:41pm Twink entered
Ate one blow of anger this morning kept me full till 1005am (bloody IT guy bring a fly swotter say its his talisman...step on my box of files...i want to murder HIM)
1 cup strawberry yougurt with 30gm muesli
Now going to VIVO to shop...pek chek
Must encourage her *Pat on the back*
At 12:41pm Twink entered
Ate one blow of anger this morning kept me full till 1005am (bloody IT guy bring a fly swotter say its his talisman...step on my box of files...i want to murder HIM)
1 cup strawberry yougurt with 30gm muesli
Now going to VIVO to shop...pek chek
Tuesday, February 19, 2008
Bobo is depressed and needs to diet!
Bobo gets her bloody act together for wesobeautiful.
19th Feb Tuesday
BREAKFAST
1 Small cup Milo from Dispenser.
Managed to resist the OTAH BUN and DONUT today from the pantry. So proud of myself.
Lunch
The whole class was eating Long John silver. Everybody wanted to study so they just popped downstairs to buy LJS.
I walked by myself to PS to buy Yong tau Foo soup W/O Noodles. (seriously sooooooo proud of myself)
2 Cuttlefish legs
1 Hardboiled egg. ( I love eggs. have to cut down on those cute oval things)
1 lady's finger
1/2 silken tofu
1 small buch straw mushroom
1 mushroom with fish meat
1 small bunch kangkong
Mid day snack.
Shared half a donut with the IT girl. Needed sugar to boost energy level.
DINNER
Yummy Bah Kut Teh near beach road
1 pot BKT with 2 pieves of meat and pig's stomach and intestines.
2 spoons of rice from Bubi's bowl
1 small ring of youtiao dip in the soup
1 cup of lime juice
Come home drink 1 yakut
18th Feb Monday
BREAKFAST1 small cup milo from Dispenser
No more 10am snack.
Office always provides bread, sandwiches and cakes. I have been snacking so much i want to slap myself.
LUNCH
Yong tau foo with soup NO NOODLES
2 Cuttlefish tentacles1 hardboiled egg
1/2 Japanese silken tofu1 lady's finger
1 small bunch straw mushrooms
1 small bunch Kangkong1 tofu with fish meat insideMid Day snack
1 small cup Milo
DINNER
Cannot make it. Had division dinner with the big boss at Metropole herbal restaurat. Yummy, tummy also big big
Lo HeiShark's Fin Soup
Small piece of steam fish
1 prawn with cabbage. (Resisted the temptetion for 2nd prawn. yeah!)
Ee meeSesame candy desert
I more dish cannot remember.
ALOT of chinese tea
1 glass sourplum juice
19th Feb Tuesday
BREAKFAST
1 Small cup Milo from Dispenser.
Managed to resist the OTAH BUN and DONUT today from the pantry. So proud of myself.
Lunch
The whole class was eating Long John silver. Everybody wanted to study so they just popped downstairs to buy LJS.
I walked by myself to PS to buy Yong tau Foo soup W/O Noodles. (seriously sooooooo proud of myself)
2 Cuttlefish legs
1 Hardboiled egg. ( I love eggs. have to cut down on those cute oval things)
1 lady's finger
1/2 silken tofu
1 small buch straw mushroom
1 mushroom with fish meat
1 small bunch kangkong
Mid day snack.
Shared half a donut with the IT girl. Needed sugar to boost energy level.
DINNER
Yummy Bah Kut Teh near beach road
1 pot BKT with 2 pieves of meat and pig's stomach and intestines.
2 spoons of rice from Bubi's bowl
1 small ring of youtiao dip in the soup
1 cup of lime juice
Come home drink 1 yakut
18th Feb Monday
BREAKFAST1 small cup milo from Dispenser
No more 10am snack.
Office always provides bread, sandwiches and cakes. I have been snacking so much i want to slap myself.
LUNCH
Yong tau foo with soup NO NOODLES
2 Cuttlefish tentacles1 hardboiled egg
1/2 Japanese silken tofu1 lady's finger
1 small bunch straw mushrooms
1 small bunch Kangkong1 tofu with fish meat insideMid Day snack
1 small cup Milo
DINNER
Cannot make it. Had division dinner with the big boss at Metropole herbal restaurat. Yummy, tummy also big big
Lo HeiShark's Fin Soup
Small piece of steam fish
1 prawn with cabbage. (Resisted the temptetion for 2nd prawn. yeah!)
Ee meeSesame candy desert
I more dish cannot remember.
ALOT of chinese tea
1 glass sourplum juice
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